A week and a day ago, Jim had complete shoulder replacement surgery. The procedure went well, and he has started PT.
That said, we’re both rather frazzled. Jim underestimated how much having only partial use of his left arm would mean in terms of limiting what he can do. This means an inclination to over-do on his part, which I appreciate until he tuckers out and gets grumpy.
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Me… Well, taking over most of his jobs, including running errands, has cut into my ability to separate from reality and write. I am managing, but it’s harder to get into the zone.
However, weirdly the thing that is disrupting me the most is our current sleeping arrangements. The number of pillows needed to give Jim appropriate support feel like a wall between us. I have a whole new appreciation how the custom of “bundling” as a courtship procedure really did provide a sense of separation.
But we’re managing.
What’s amazing is how quickly the cats figured out that Jim’s left arm and shoulder are off-limits. Persephone in particular likes to sit on Jim’s chest. After being told to not touch the shoulder, she still sits on him, but she carefully avoids kneading the tender area.
Oh, and if anyone thinks cats are committed to order, they’re nothing to guinea pigs. Our guinea pigs have two domiciles: smaller for night, larger for day. In order to accustom them to both of us handling them, I move Dandy in the morning, Coco in the evening. Jim does the reverse.
Well, obviously, right now Jim can’t safely move either one. Coco in particular made a tremendous fuss to inform me that YOU HAVE IT ALL WRONG!!! It took a week before she’d settle for sulking rather than kicking and running in circles.
So, a frazzled household, but coping, and grateful that frazzled is all we are…